Adveshta Sarvabhutaana Maitra: Karuna Ev cha
Nirmamo nirahankarah sam dukh Sukh kshmi.13.
The Lord says that one who does not hate anyone, but is a kind friend of all living beings, who does not consider himself a master and is free from falsehood and ego, who is equal in happiness and sorrow and is tolerant, such a devotee I Very dear.
Purport: The Lord describes the qualities of a pure devotee in this verse. The Lord says that a pure devotee does not get distracted under any circumstances, nor is he envious of anyone.
Neither does he become the enemy of his enemy, rather he thinks that this person has become my enemy because of my past misdeeds, so it is better to suffer than to oppose.
Whenever a devotee is in trouble, he thinks that it is God's mercy on me. I should have suffered much more according to my earlier misdeeds.
It is God's great grace upon me that I am not getting the full punishment due to me, but by His grace I am getting only a little punishment. That's why he always remains calm and patient even in many painful situations.
A devotee of the Lord is always kind to every living being, even to his enemy. Nirmam means that the devotee does not give primacy to physical sufferings, because he knows very well that he is not the material body but the soul.
Because the devotee does not consider himself to be the body, he remains free from falsehood and ego, and is equanimous in happiness and sorrow. Such devotees are very dear to God.
That is, God can be easily attained by pure devotion in Kalyug, there is no other way.